Charlotte is the perfect place to channel your inner Southern belle while still keeping things modern and chic. From grand estates to monogrammed napkins (because of course), here’s how to give your wedding that irresistible Southern charm.
1. The Venue: A Stately Affair
Nothing says Southern elegance like a historic mansion or sprawling estate. Consider venues like Vanlandingham Estate, Pearl Mansion, or Separk Mansion for that antebellum grace mixed with contemporary convenience. Think chandeliers, sweeping staircases, and just the right amount of vintage charm. Grand entrances and fairytale-worthy backdrops? Yes, please!



Vanlandingham Estate (www.vanlandinghamestate.com)
Nestled in the heart of Plaza Midwood, Vanlandingham Estate is a historic gem offering timeless Southern elegance. With lush gardens, stunning architecture, and a refined yet welcoming atmosphere, this venue is perfect for couples looking for a classic yet intimate wedding experience. Whether you envision an outdoor garden ceremony or a sophisticated indoor reception, Vanlandingham Estate provides a breathtaking backdrop for your special day.
Pearl Mansion (www.pearlmansion.com)
A hidden treasure of Southern sophistication, Pearl Mansion blends historic charm with modern luxury. This beautifully restored estate features grand columns, elegant ballrooms, and sprawling grounds perfect for an unforgettable wedding. With a reputation for impeccable service and attention to detail, Pearl Mansion ensures that every couple experiences a wedding day filled with romance, elegance, and seamless execution.
Separk Mansion (www.separkmansion.com)
If you’re dreaming of a grand, fairytale-like wedding, Separk Mansion is your perfect match. This restored 1920s mansion boasts dazzling chandeliers, a sweeping staircase, and breathtaking gardens for an unforgettable ceremony and reception. With luxurious getting-ready suites and plenty of space for an elegant affair, this venue blends historic charm with modern sophistication, making it a top choice for couples who want a classic and refined celebration.
By choosing a venue rich in history and charm, your Charlotte wedding will radiate timeless Southern elegance, setting the stage for a celebration that’s both stylish and unforgettable.
2. The Florals: Go Big or Go Home
Southern weddings are known for lush, romantic florals. Think cascading bouquets, towering centerpieces, and magnolia leaves everywhere. The South doesn’t do subtle when it comes to flowers, and neither should you! And guess what? Crafted Charm Wedding Planning just so happens to offer exquisite floral design services to make your wedding Pinterest-worthy. Check out our floral services here!
3. The Menu: Fried Chicken & Fancy Cocktails
Your guests didn’t travel all this way to eat a salad. Southern weddings are about good ol’ comfort food—shrimp and grits, biscuit bars, and, of course, a signature bourbon cocktail. Keep it classy, keep it delicious. Think of it as an elegant dinner party, but with way more butter, and nobody will judge you for a second helping of mac and cheese. If you’re looking for caterers who can deliver both Southern charm and culinary excellence, here are some of Charlotte’s best:
Best Impressions Caterers (www.bestimpressionscaterers.com)
Known for their elevated Southern cuisine and impeccable presentation, Best Impressions brings fine-dining quality to your wedding day. Whether you’re envisioning a plated dinner with gourmet twists on classic dishes or a lively buffet filled with comforting favorites, their expert chefs will make sure your guests leave raving about the food.
QC Catering (www.qccatering.com)
QC Catering is all about flavorful, chef-driven menus that blend Southern tradition with modern creativity. From custom hors d’oeuvres to full-service catering with interactive food stations, they’ll work with you to craft a menu that perfectly fits your wedding vibe. Don’t forget to ask about their famous mac and cheese bar—a guaranteed crowd-pleaser!
BOOK Catering (www.bookcatering.com)
For couples who want seasonal, locally sourced ingredients with a touch of Southern hospitality, BOOK Catering is a fantastic choice. They specialize in farm-to-table menus that showcase the best of North Carolina flavors. Whether you’re craving buttermilk fried chicken, smoked brisket, or handcrafted signature cocktails, they’ll ensure your menu is as memorable as your big day.
By choosing one of these talented caterers, you’ll give your guests an unforgettable Southern dining experience—because no one should leave your wedding hungry (or without trying the bourbon cocktail).
4. The Attire: Timeless & Traditional
Ladies, embrace lace, off-the-shoulder gowns, or even an elegant ballgown. A touch of vintage elegance—perhaps a heirloom veil passed down through generations—adds sentimental value and Southern charm. Gentlemen, seersucker suits and bowties are practically a requirement in the South. Bonus points if you show up in a dapper three-piece suitthat exudes timeless elegance.
Business Spotlight: Ever’s Bridal Boutique – www.eversbridal.com
For brides seeking a classic, romantic look with a modern touch, Ever’s Bridal Boutique is the go-to destination in Charlotte. Known for its curated collection of designer gowns, this boutique specializes in Southern-inspired elegance, offering everything from intricate lace dresses to dramatic ballgowns. Their experienced consultants provide a personalized, stress-free shopping experience, ensuring you find a gown that captures your vision while embracing the charm and grace of a Southern wedding.
Whether you’re drawn to timeless traditions or modern sophistication, your wedding day attire should reflect your personality while embracing the beauty of Southern elegance.
5. Hospitality: The Ultimate Southern Trait
Want to keep your wedding truly Southern? Welcome bags with local goodies like Cheerwine, honey, and pecan pralines will make your guests feel right at home. Consider handwritten thank-you notes or even late-night snacks of warm, buttery biscuits—because in the South, hospitality isn’t just a concept, it’s a way of life.
Need help pulling off the perfect Southern wedding? Let Crafted Charm bring your vision to life. Book a consultation today!